What we have here is a perfect storm that has been brewing for a year now and I did not see it coming. The instability in the forum was due to the legacy version of mysql my server was running. I could not upgrade it due to the age of the server image and the version it was running. The cost of running the server just as it is has mostly kept me from upgrading to the next gen. There are key sponsors on the site that have been here for the last 20 years....that support us for the sake of supporting us, but the others have dwindled off when they can track sales back to their sponsorship. Google ads have been keeping the ship afloat. That is just one part. The other was the backups that were going to a machine I have running back at the office. I work from home now, so I'm not there to keep an eye on it. Little did I know, but blocks were put in place to keep it from downloading that type of file. That one is on me.
I have a backup of data I'm uploading now, but I can't be sure how far it covers until the restore is complete. I'll let you know.
Once I know I have exhausted my efforts I'll decide what to do next. The TAC family has been great and have contributed over the years, but I've never wanted to ask for help. I will probably have to dump the table again to do a restore, so don't be surprised.