Bob,
Looking forward to hearing your real-world experiences with an all-electric car.
My wife has a good friend that owns several businesses in Wisconsin requiring about 200 mile round trips between. They replaced a Ford Expedition (full size SUV) with a Tesla Model 3. Just talking about charging costs, they claim their monthly expense is about 1/3 of what gasoline was for the SUV. But we are kind of talking about an apples to oranges comparison regarding vehicle size and weight. They have made several round trips to Orlando and back with friends driving gasoline powered vehicles and claim travel time was very close. My understanding is the Tesla Charging Application is very good at guiding you to a charging station with little to no waiting time. The only drawback I have heard for Tesla is the long acquisition time for collision repair parts. Long term battery life is still an unknown, but repair and maintenance should be less than an internal combustion powered vehicle. I have talked to neighbors and friends who own Tesla's, they all are very positive. No doubt the future is in electric powered vehicles. In the long run I think cost per mile will be the driving force.
My wife and I both have Hybrids as daily drivers. Me a 2017 Hyundai Sonata Hybrid now with only 42,000 miles. When I retired in 2018 it had 22,000 miles. Spring Summer and Fall mileage is in the 42 to 46 MPG range. Winter time it drops to the mid 30's because the engine has to run to produce heat. My wife drives a 2013 Toyota Hylander Hybrid, it gets 28 MPG except in winter where it drops to 22-23 MPG. Her car has 144,000 miles, all I have replaced is tires, brakes, air filters, oil changes and a 12V starting battery. My wife drives with a lead foot and is hard on brakes, yet we still got 120K out of her first set of brakes. While I am all for protecting and helping the environment, I was more drawn to these cars because of the technology. Hybrid cars really shine in heavy traffic city driving. Mileage in city driving is often better than highway. On a hot summer day the AC works great, its all battery powered and engine stays much cooler because it's not running very much.